How is your child doing academically and socially? Poor school performance can be a sign of attention or learning problems, bullying or depression. If you have concerns about your child’s last semester, now is the perfect time to discuss this before the next school year begins. This is a safe place for your child to discuss any concerns. Together with your doctor you can get to the root of the problem.
Home Life
A healthy lifestyle should start at home. Healthy nutrition and physical activity should be encouraged. Accomplishments should be praised, and children should be supported and encouraged to participate in a variety of activities. Screen time, including TV, video games, smart phones, tablets and computers should be limited to a maximum of 90 minutes per day. A growing desire for independence in preteens may test the boundaries of established rules. Sometimes it can be a struggle to get the balance right. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Sleep
It is important for children to have a healthy sleep routine. Children aged 6 to 13 years need 9 to 11 hours sleep every night. Good quality sleep is needed for growth. Lack of sleep can affect attention and performance. Late night TV, phone and internet usage, caffeine and bad dreams can have a disruptive effect on children’s sleep. If your child is having trouble sleeping, or bedtime resistance is a struggle, ask your doctor for advice on how to improve your child’s sleep with healthy sleeping habits and a consistent bedtime routine.
Nutrition
Good nutrition in childhood really gives your child the best possible start in life. A healthy balanced diet gives your child the energy they need to grow and enjoy an active life. It shapes their future and prevents the development of obesity and its multiple complications, including diabetes, heart disease, and cancer.
Childhood obesity is now an epidemic in the United States – more than one third of children and adolescents are overweight or obese. Now is the time to address it. If you are worried about your child’s weight, the annual physical is a great time to discuss this with your doctor.
If you are concerned that your child is underweight, talk to your doctor about the possibility of anorexia and bulimia. Eating disorders are common in adolescence. Or, you may simply want to discuss how to encourage your child to make healthy food choices or how to manage fussy eaters.
Exercise
Physical activity is essential for your child’s health. It helps your child maintain a healthy weight, boosts mood and self-esteem, and encourages friendship, integration and teamwork. Children and adolescents between 5 and 17 years old should be accumulating at least 60 minutes of physical activity every day. More than 60 minutes of physical activity daily carries additional health benefits. If your child doesn’t like sports, seek advice about how you can incorporate fitness into their life.
Safety
This is a good time for you and your child to talk to your doctor about safety concerns. Depending on your child’s age, this may range from bicycle helmet safety to concerns about alcohol, drugs, smoking, sexual activity, internet usage and awareness of signs of possible depression, bullying or cyberbullying.
Puberty and Sexual Health
If your child is approaching adolescence, puberty will be discussed. Talk to your child about the coming changes. In girls, puberty usually starts between 8 and 13 years with breast development and the appearance of pubic hair. Menstruation usually begins about 2 years later.
In boys, testicular enlargement begins between 9 and 15 years. Penile growth and the appearance of pubic hair follow. As puberty continues, muscles grow, the voice deepens and facial hair begins to appear.
Growth spurts usually occur at this time. For girls, it occurs about 6-12 months before their first menstrual period. For boys it occurs later in their pubertal development. This lasts for 2 to 3 years and brings them closer to their adult height, which they reach after puberty.
Skin may become oily and acne may develop. Due to hormonal changes, mood swings are also likely to occur. Adolescents going through puberty may experience issues with self-esteem as they become more focused on personal appearance and behavior and yearn for peer acceptance. They begin to seek greater independence, and it is often difficult for parents to find the right balance.
If you have any concerns about pubertal development, or want advice on how to help your child through this challenging time or how to manage specific problems such as acne, now is a great time to ask.
You may want to ask your doctor about giving your child sex education. Children should be encouraged to ask questions. You may want advice on how to discuss the subjects of puberty, menstruation, sexual activity, birth control and the risk of sexually transmitted disease and unplanned pregnancy. Your doctor may ask your teenager about sexual activity, so be prepared for this!
How can I prepare for this visit?
It’s imperative that you come prepared to this visit. Arrive early enough to fill out paperwork. Have important information ready. This should include current medical conditions (such as asthma or diabetes), allergies (pollen, food, insect stings, etc.), history of illness or previous injury, hospitalization or surgery.
Your family history will be reviewed. This is important to detect patterns of disease and chronic illness that run in your family, such as diabetes, heart disease or cancer. Early detection is preventative and can even be life-saving.
If your child is on any medications, you should bring a list of prescription medications, over-the-counter medications, and supplements. Remember to bring your child’s immunization card, school entry form and sports participation form.
Consider what you want to discuss with your doctor. If you have any concerns, now is a great opportunity to raise them. Be prepared to leave the room for sensitive issues if your son or daughter would be more comfortable discussing some things alone with the doctor. In the case of adolescents, you may be asked to step out of the room for part of the examination. You may also request time alone to discuss concerns without your child present.
You can prepare your child for this healthcare visit by discussing with them in advance what it will involve. Encourage your child to prepare for the check-up, and encourage him/her to bring forward any issues or concerns to be raised.
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